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Year: 2013

We’ve Lost It

The Church of England is fond of the phrase ‘lex orandi, lex credendi’: the law of prayer is the law of belief. It is a defining characteristic of Anglicanism.  At the heart of this phrase is the notion that the language we regularly use in worship changes us and the beliefs we have. I’d extend this further – the language we use, the stories we tell and the stories others tell us come to define not just who we believe God to be but also who we perceive ourselves to be, the world we live in and the people we live in the world with.  To use two examples, the church’s daily cycle of prayer reinforces our belief that God ‘comes to his people and sets them free’ through the repetition of the benedictus and the national media constantly drip feed us the rhetoric of the ‘undeserving poor‘. Both affect the perceptions of the people who constantly live out these narratives.

The current media narrative about the Church of England is that it is facing “massive decline”. I say ‘media narrative’ because this is the story that will be told in the press each week regardless of what the reality is. It is the story that will be told and the lens through which almost any article is written.  This narrative has become so ingrained in the public perception that it is often now retold as a universal truth within the church itself. The narrative we are now telling of ourselves is usually given in negative terms. People gather together at all levels to tell of what has been “lost”. It is a great feat to have “lost our church hall” but to have “lost our scouts” as well? Were they inside? Shouldn’t we be arranging a search party?

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Over thousands of years the church has been constantly reconfiguring itself to meet the changing needs of it’s local mission. This is no different in the 21st century than it was in the previous centuries. The major difference is the overarching narrative that is being used to describe it.  When Augustin of Canterbury was asked to become the “Apostle to the English” in the 6th century his first questions probably weren’t about the PCC or the church hall. He is unlikely to have asked about the local scout troop or whether the grave yard was still open.  The team was assembled and off they went to the desolate north (Canterbury).

The Jesus movement is a revolutionary movement. It is a movement based upon a belief that God is constantly changing the world and that we are invited into this Missio Dei. We pray “your kingdom come, your will be done” and we invite others to join this revolution. ‘You too could be part of this revolutionary movement: the Jesus movement’. If the narrative we are telling the world is that the Jesus movement has ‘lost’ this and ‘lost’ that, we ourselves are perpetuating that are decline.

Welcome to Church

The Church of England has recently published a guide to the “Top Ten Facts About Christenings“. It is a starter for ten for people making enquiries about their local church and “getting little Timmy ‘done'”.It seems to have picked the same scab that The Weddings Project picked for a lot of vicars….. it educates people about their rights (something vicars don’t like to admit people have) and their responsibilities (something many vicars insist people should be born with pre installed like iOS6).

I am not a cradle Anglican. I may have mentioned this once or twice. I wasn’t even a churchgoer. I grew up with the belief that The Church TM didn’t have anything to do with ‘people like me’. In all honesty, the church treated me like a pariah when I was a teenager with a Helloween patch on the back of my denim jacket – I managed to attend for 5 weeks. When I arrived at university this is what I told Ruth: The church does not want people like me in it. The David Mitchell portrayal of the Evil Vicar isn’t just a cultural stereotype, it is often the real lived experience of a first time enquirer.

“Hello, are you the vicar? I am just ringing to ask about booking a venue…..”

There are two responses to this phone call:

a) [a brusk] It isn’t as simple as that! You are not simply booking a venue…
b) Congratulations. That’s great. Let’s have a chat about how we can help you celebrate the gift of a new child/celebrate the love you have for each other as you come together in holy matrimony…

I have sat in a room and watched both of these happen. I know which one I picked up as good practice.

The Church TM is a daunting experience for those of us you refer to as ‘unbelievers’. Walking through that door for the first time is a real challenge. If your first instinct is to trip someone up on their way in for the first time you will probably never see them again and neither will anyone else.

There is a massive theological issue at stake here. Jesus is the incarnate God who had a table ministry. He welcomed everyone in. Regardless of their religious literacy. Regardless of their knowledge of canon law or the parish system. Regardless of whether they had the language to ask for a service rather than a booking.

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“I didn’t realise we could get married in church vicar”. Happy to help.
“Can we have Timmy done?” Why don’t you meet me and the church wardens on Sunday and we’ll help you along the way?
“Will I be able to bring my son with me, he’s got Asperger’s so he may not be the most well behaved.” That’s fine, everyone is welcome here. If we can cope with a noisy vicar like me I’m sure we can cope with a little noise. After all, some famous guy said ‘let the little children come to me’.